The last few years instead of resolutions I’ve done word of the year. This is where I pick a word that I want to work towards, sort of a theme for the upcoming year. It worked great and I seemed to achieved most of my goals, without realizing it. This year however, I decided to change it up a bit. Instead of doing just a word or resolutions, i’m doing affirmations. Then I’ll pick my word of the year based on my affirmations.
A year or so ago, I talked about my motivational journal and how it helped me when I needed it. I loved creating it & adding to it whenever I was down or needed a pick me up. Over this past year, I’ve pushed it aside and it’s time to revisit it & making a new one. I think it’s so important to do one each year, since our lives change so much within that short period of time.
This year more than any other, I’m in need of encouragement & support from within, which isn’t always there. I’m way too harsh on myself; i’m my biggest critic instead of being my best friend. I don’t give myself credit when I do something great or things work out as I wanted. Nor do I give myself grace for when I make mistakes, learning new lessons. I want to concentrate on encouraging & supporting myself more through positive ways, changing my self talk and how I truly see myself. And I’ll begin this journey with my 12 affirmations for 2016.
- Being unique is a blessing, one that I embrace with open arms
- Life is what you put into it; make it fun & rewarding it becomes so
- I will inspire others through my creativity & unique spirit
- I choose to be the source of strength & encouragement for those I love
- I’m limited only by a vision of what is possible
- I fully embrace who I am today
- I choose to focus on solutions rather than the problem
- Find beauty from within to find it in others
- Positivity is my guiding light through the darkest times
- Every night I choose to let go of the day’s mistakes or regrets
- I will slow down each day & embrace the little moments, not
- On dark days, I will have to create my own sunshine
Do you see a theme with my affirmations? If I had to choose a word based on the above 12 my word for 2016 would be ENCOURAGEMENT.
Are you making resolutions? Or picking a word? Or affirmations? Or do you do something different? What are your goals or where do you see yourself going in the upcoming year?
Create With Joy, Oh My Heartsie Girl, My Turn For Us, Sincerely Paula,
“The best of all gifts around any Christmas tree is the presence of a happy family all wrapped up in each other.” ~ Burton Hillis
Earlier this week, I went hiking with hubby in pretty cold weather. It was a whooping 35 degrees, but after I bundled up, I was perfectly fine. Or so I thought.
Shortly after we began, I started losing my breath. As soon as I headed over my 2nd hill, my chest began to tighten and I had a hard time breathing. This happened pretty much most of the way, any time I exerted myself. WOW!! Talk about being completely outta shape. I made it as far as I could go, but sadly it was only 2/3 of the way up. I didn’t reach the top because I couldn’t.
It took everything I had, not to cry from embarrassment. I was embarrassed I let myself get so out of shape, embarrassed that I was like this in front of my husband, & I was embarrassed I couldn’t make it to the top because I really thought I could.
As I began the trip down, my self talk was pure negative. I was really beating myself up, thinking the worst of myself. This went on for half the way down, till I got to a certain spot.
This spot was absolutely breathtaking. There was a mini waterfall that lead into a river. The sun was shining and peaking through the trees perfectly on this brightly covered moss stone. It was stunning. All I could think about was what a beautiful place to take pictures at. Then I began to think of different photo shoots I could do here. The beauty of this place enabled me to take step back, recollect my thoughts, & concentrate on something other than my negative thoughts.
From that point on, I began thinking about the positives from this trip. I began to think about how far I have come because 2 yrs ago (at the height of my illness) I wouldn’t have been able to do this at all. Then I began to feel proud for not giving up at the 1st sight of trouble. Even though I really wanted too. I pushed myself till I couldn’t and knew it was time to call it quits.
Isn’t it so funny how so simple can change my perspective and let me see things in a whole new light. I was really able to look past the disappointment & embarrassment to see all the wonderful things that came from this trip.
What helps you change your thinking replacing the negatives thoughts with more positive ones?
Create With Joy,
I’m always on the lookout for ways to save or stretch our money as much as possible. I’m very good at it, but there is always room to grow. Part of my growing, is sharing with others how I do this, especially doing it with a large family. I decided that each week I will share the frugalness through successful shopping trips, tips, ideas etc. I hope others out there, share their frugalness with me as well. So we can learn from one another as well as learning successful ways to be frugal.
During the holidays, it’s easy to be frugal, if you can squash the wants & so called needs. There are so many things I would love to buy, some even I think I need to buy but reality is, is that I don’t. To help me keep my perspective, I usually do something special with the family through free or cheap activities, crafts, diy, or outings. This week’s biggest money savings came from a raffle basket I won. See below how I saved money this week.
1. Got 5.5lbs of spicy sausage for $5.00 total @ Shaw’s.
2. My husband donated one of the games & a movie I won to Toys for Tots.
3. Used 2 movies from the raffle basket I won for a birthday present my girls will give their classmate.
4. Returned 2 games I won that we couldn’t use & exchanged it for Christmas decorations
5. Attended a family cookie decorating party and brought free cookies home.
6. Since work ended for the season, I’m saving a lot of money on gas.
7. Recycled things around the house for supplies for ornament gift toppers.
8. Had a few extra pieces of garland and tied it into my girls hair instead of throwing it away. Instant festive hair.
Bonus: My mother in law made us some yummy cookies. Yay for cookies!!
How did you save money this week? Got any frugal tips or ideas to share? Or a frugal score you just have to share. Love to hear them all 🙂
Create with Joy, Oh My Heartsie Girl, Simply Wright,
For the last few years, my town does this neat event called “Festival of Trees” where different organizations decorate a tree according to their specific theme, that is scattered through our armory (which is also our community center.) This year not only is the elementary school decorating one but our girl scout troop is too. Our girl scout troop is doing snow sport theme, which isn’t the easiest them to work with, let me tell you.
Our girl scout troop is divided into Daisys and Brownies, so we are doing two different kinds of ornaments……..wooden sleds for the Daisys & borax snowflakes for the brownies. Both ornaments were fun to make, simple enough to the kids to do, & cheap to make.
The snowflakes were fun to watch crystalize over a period of 12 hrs. The girls kept coming back to check every so often. The sleds were also fun to make since the girls got to use hot glue. They also enjoyed customizing them, since they could color them any way they wanted.
3 tablespoons of borax
boiling water (enough to submerge the snowflake)
2 pipe cleaners (whatever color you want the snowflake to be)
container (fits the snowflake comfortably)
* Take one pipe cleaner and cut it into three equal parts.
*Take the other pipe cleaner and cut it into 6 equal parts.
*Take the 3 longer pieces & twist together forming a star shape.
*Take the smaller pieces and twist around the end of each star, turning it into a snowflake.
*Boil enough water to submerge the entire snowflake. Once boiling, pour into container that fits the snowflake comfortably.
*Pour borax into container and stir well. This part is very important, you need to mix well, making sure there isn’t any borax on the bottom or it won’t work.
*Take snowflake and tie fishing line around it.
*Place snowflake into the borax solution and have it hang from the pencil.
*It takes anywhere between 4-12 hrs. I let it set for 12-13 hrs.
*Once set, take snowflake out of solution and let dry for a few minutes.
~Viola you have just made a borax sparkly snowflake. ~
8 popsicle sticks per sled
markers or paint
*Take 5 sticks and place them together, in the desired sled shape you wanted.
*Cut one stick into pieces, that aren’t bigger than the sled, so it doesn’t show from the other side.
*Glue 2 cut pieces over the sled shape, holding it together.
*Make 2 glue dots on each cut piece.
*Place 1 stick per side for the legs of the sled. Make sure to add extra glue for support.
*Once dried, decorate as desired or leave blank.
~Viola, you just create simple sleds in under 5 minutes.~
What ornaments have you made this holiday season? I would love to see them 🙂
Ducks N a Row, Create With Joy,
I’m asking anyone out there, who reads this post, for a little bit of help. I’m looking to start up a link up party but don’t know what theme it should be. I don’t want to do something other sites are doing, I wanted to be a little more creative, yet nothing comes to mind. I just want to create a place that everyone can mingle with and have their blog get more exposure.
So, I am asking you to take a moment or two and help me come up with a new link up party that we all can participate in that isn’t overly done, like random diy or recipe parties. Lets put on our thinking caps and come up with a fantastic fun party.
Anything come to mind????